It's about time for an update, one fit for the grandparents. If you're not one of the aforementioned grandparents, please feel free to skim or skip until your heart's content.
This little lovie is my constant companion.
She loves to play doll house, draw, cut, and glue, bead necklaces and bracelets, read books, watch her shows, play pretend just about anything, and to make her little sister laugh. When she plays doll house the mommy, Dalene, sounds very mean and a little too strict. Sigh. I'm trying to find balance. When she does crafts she makes a huge mess but she loves it and I love it occupying her time. Her beaded jewelry? I let her play with it or we "mail" it to family and friends, but then I cut the string and put the beads back in her baggie. She never chooses to read books, so I will often grab a stack and start reading to myself, and before the end of the first page of the first book she is snuggled by my side. She loves to watch Miss Spider's Sunny Patch and Team Umi Zoomi and Little Bear and Franklin. I can't stand Franklin and we're trying to watch less TV. We pretend our lives away playing doctor/patient or mommy/sweetie or Tangled/Mother Gothel. I never get to be Tangled. She is so good at getting Kaia to laugh and helping me with Kaia. I don't know what I'd do without her.
She loves
treats and asks for one every five minutes throughout the day. She told me today that she wants my tummy to stay big and when I asked why she responded, "Because we don't have any treats when you're trying to get your tummy smaller." That made me
laugh.
She comes into our room twice a night saying that she is
scared of the dark. Half asleep, I walk her back to bed and tuck her in. She's asleep in seconds and once in awhile I stay and watch her sleep. I often get
emotional, still, at how fast the time has gone with her. She is such a child now and has very few baby-like tendencies left. I hope we are doing an okay job with her because the end of the really formative years seems to be approaching.
My favorite recent memory with her was sledding in Vermont with Melissa and Maya. Zoey
cried more than she laughed, I think, but wanted to keep sledding. She's so
funny like that.
When we tell her we're going to take a picture she totally
poses and it is funny but also a little irritating. Sometimes I want a nice, normal picture, not her tilting her body one way or another. Oh, well.
She
LOVES preschool and church: her friends, teachers, and lessons. She has
grown and
changed so much just since September and I find myself overwhelmed with gratitude for the
teachers in her life.
I
struggle with balance where Zoey is concerned. I want to
document her life while it is fresh in my
memory, but is it worth ignoring her for 30 minutes to do a blog post or a scrapbook page? I want her to be
kind and
accepting but not too trusting. She is
polite and
well-behaved, but are my expectations too high? I want her
independence to grow but I dread the day she no longer needs me.
To say
I love this little lovie seems like an understatement.
This little lovie is my other constant companion.
Constant as in most of the day and even some of the night.
She loves to
climb up and down the stairs,
empty out any and all bins, cupboards, and drawers,
eat Cheerios and puffs off the floor,
dance, jibber-jabber,
giggle, and "play" with anything with which big sister is playing. Climbing the stairs is a relatively new interest, so my heart still lurches into my stomach when she decides to stand on a step midway up or down. She's so
proud of her accomplishment, though. While the emptying out is a good developmental skill, I know, it is also maddening. People tell me I will miss finding stuff all over the house, but I'm just not quite convinced. Eating off the floor? Not possible for a child of mine. Alas, it is done on a daily basis. Dancing is another new talent, and it is the cutest
bouncing, twisting, rocking you can imagine. Her jibber-jabber is so
deliberate I feel as if she is trying to tell me something
important. I can't wait until she says something besides
hi. The giggling is so cute and so silly at the same time. We love it. And big sister NEVER complains when Kaia comes to "play" with her toys. Nor does she whine or cry or scream, "Mommy, help me!" at the top of her lungs.
She loves
crawling around with something in each of her hands, even though it makes her movement more difficult. A few days ago she latched on to these weird pink balls and wouldn't give them up for several hours. Even during meal times. Just look at her
daring me to take them away.
Though not as frequently, she still wakes up during the night. I tried,
really tried, to appreciate that alone time with her. At this point, though, I am so sleep-deprived I am over any alone time that involves anyone besides me, myself, and I.
How's that for selfish?
My favorite recent memory with her was watching her learn how to
clap. She
focused so hard to put her two
tiny hands together and it made me
thankful for her mind that works.
She loves
people. She stares them down until they acknowledge her presence, and she especially loves her daddy, mommy, and sister. When seeing us for the first time in a day, it is as if she hasn't seen us in weeks. We love it.
I struggle with the heavy guilt of knowing that because of fatigue and depression I missed out on most of Kaia's first year. By
missed out I mean it was very difficult to enjoy. Though there is really no way to make up for that, I am trying to be
more positive, more grateful, more present.
To say
I love this littlest lovie seems like an understatement, too.
